Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Haters gonna hate



Last week I met a guy.

“Meet” is probably the wrong word. I was walking to class and happened upon a friend talking to a group of people I didn’t know. Said friend greeted me by pointing at the guy in question and yelling “Alex! He does not like Moffat!”

This guy then proceeded to inform me (a girl he hadn’t even been introduced to) his opinions on Steven Moffat. He believes, and I quote, that Steven Moffat is “sexist, racist and homophobic.”
I’ll give that a moment to sink in.

I’m no stranger to anti-Moffat opinions. If you spend any length of time looking at a particular subject online, you’re going to come across people who don’t like it. This goes doubly for someone who people feel they need to have strong feelings about. I will openly admit that, on reading things that people tweet at Steven Moffat or post about him on Tumblr, I occasionally have the desire to track down the offenders IRL and set their letter boxes on fire.

I was, it should be said, very restrained when I encountered this guy. I tried to present my counter arguments in a sane manner for a little while, realised this was fruitless and proceeded to excuse myself and walk away very quickly before I succumbed to the urge to ask him where he lived and whether or not he was in possession of a letter box. Sexist, racist AND homophobic? This guy was clearly was not in a right state of mind.

Now I can understand how some people misconstrue certain things and thus come to the conclusion that Moffat is sexist. Taken out of context some stuff he’s said in interviews could create that impression. He very clearly ISN’T sexist (Lynda Day is one of the most empowered and inspiring female characters ever to grace our screens) but I can forgive that misconception. However, saying that the various pro-gay references in series 6 (which serve to NORMALISE homosexuality in a way which should be applauded) are condescending anti-gay slurs (that’s right, he actually thought that) is stretching the point a bit. I can’t even begin to comprehend how he arrived at racist.

But I digress. I could spend any number of posts outlining the main flaws in this fundamentally flawed argument. I would, however, be preaching to the converted. Because a blind person could see that he’s wrong. That is not the point. The point is that Steven Moffat is not just some kind of vague conceptual entity who produces scripts without emotion. He’s a PERSON. A human being. A real one. And no one should be allowed to make those kind of comments about anyone. (Except maybe Tony Abbot. ZING! Political satire.)

Haters ignore this fundamental fact. They forget that directing their unbridled (and usually ignorant) rage at someone is not a socially acceptable thing to do. There is no situation where ripping someone to shreds like that is ok. I don’t care what some parts of The Internet think- its just not.
Which brings me to another point- The Internet.

Now one guys expressing his opinion to me is very different to that same guy writing his thoughts down on a blog and tweeting it at Steven Moffat himself. That is really, really not cool. You know that Flight of the Concords song? No? Hang on, I’ll find a YouTube link…there. That’s what I’m getting at here.

While I happily subscribe to the fangirl end of the spectrum, I’m not a hater. I can’t think of anyone I have the desire to out-poor my deep seated loathing for. Except maybe Mary Shelley but she’s dead. And she wrote that really rubbish book about mountains. I suppose maybe I’m a hater of Steven Moffat haters. Does that count?

Here’s the thing- I’ve been in a television studio for seven hours while a team of people slave over an hour long show only to have some idiot rip it apart on Twitter. I’ve seen the love and devotion which is invested in something even though its subsequently panned (this could easily have been a post in defence of Good News World). I don’t think people should be allowed to hate on anything without knowing the sweat, tears and sleepless nights which went into creating it.

So in conclusion- Steven Moffat…well he’s just this guy, you know?

3 comments:

  1. Wow! this is such a great post Alex. You have put everything I feel on the topic into words. I think it's all well and good to have opinions. I even think it's ok to share those opinions on the internet (we all need to be validated sometimes, right?) But it's never ok to directly address someone you don't know via the internet to abuse them for their work. It always amazes me when people attack celebrities via twitter and are then shocked when that person responds angrily, or even just in their own defence, or when that person's fans also respond. The original offender often calls that "abuse" or "hating". Those people are real people, sure they're in the public eye and open themselves up for criticism, but not abuse!

    Meanwhile, sexist, homophobic and racist? What CAN'T he do?

    L

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  2. Yes to this. Yes. It's astounding how so many people walk around hurling abuse like no one has any real feelings.
    I am very confused about these opinions on Moffat. Once I read that the only criticism of Doctor Who he had ever taken to heart was the lack of gay characters in his first series. 'Slightly appalled' were the words he used. Anyway, haters make me sad because I couldn't bring myself to really ever hate a writer or actor. I cry when people insult companions (any of them. And they do frequently).

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  3. People are allowed to do and, more importantly, to think what they want to (until, of course, they want to kill someone and actually do hurt somebody or something) and they will. And of course we all have our opinions about our favorite shows, just because we care for them. And here comes a conflict because we care for them differently. That is why people say that Moffat is sexist and homophobic, because they want the shows to be better. All of the companions could be breathtaking and relatable as fuck, but no, the all just flirty and sassy and undeveloped. That's why I don't like Moffat. Kinda like what. And girl above me - holy shit, don't cry about OPINIONS of people you don't even know. Please, it s fucking horryfing. I that I was crying for stupid reasons all the time

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